Most people talk openly about their love-lives when there is guaranteed anonymity. Is it because we still don't want to take public responsibility for what is going on in our love-lives? Are we embarrassed about needing love like it is a sign of weakness or something? The fact is that it takes a lot of fortitude to handle an experience of love. If you can't handle a bit of emotional turbulence than love will remain interesting but scary. If anonymity gives a person a chance to get up close enough to his/her experience to find out what is uncomfortable about love, it has been useful. The internet offers the purest form of anonymity available to the public. Apart from hackers determined to read your love-life thoughts as if each word represented a coveted piece of highly classified information, your love-life secrets are safely disguised by your username. At the Love-Life Workshops, anonymity is sacred. We know that without it there would be far less openness and honesty on our site. We accept this and realize that people are defined less by their name, address & phone number than the love-life experienes that influenced them and shaped their personalities.